The Dreamy 30A Bachelorette Itinerary You’ll Want to Copy

The Ultimate 4-Day 30A Bachelorette Itinerary

Trip Length: 4 days, 3 nights | Group Vibe: Chic beach relaxation meets celebration | Budget Range: $485-$1,485 per person

This 4-day itinerary is designed for real friend groups with different energy levels, budgets, and interests. We've built in flexibility, strategic timing, and options based on where you're staying across 30A. No more one-size-fits-all plans that don't account for your actual base location.

For complete details on all hotels, restaurants, and activities mentioned in this itinerary, check out our comprehensive 30A Bachelorette Planning Guide.

📌 For complete venue details, pricing, and booking strategies, check out our comprehensive 30A bachelorette planning guide with verified restaurants, hotels, and insider navigation tips.

Pre-Trip: Budget & Coordination Day 1: Arrival & Welcome Day 2: Beach, Nature & Sunset Day 3: Peak Celebration Day 4: Departure Transportation Notes Getting Around 30A Golf Cart Logistics Bike Strategy Beach Rules & Safety Flexibility Reminders Final Tips Additional Resources

Pre-Trip: Budget & Coordination

6-8 Weeks Before:

Finalize accommodation (see our planning guide for all options by neighborhood and tier)
Choose your 30A base (east end luxury vs. central charm vs. west end value)
Make dinner reservations: 2-4 weeks ahead for Restaurant Paradis, FOOW, The Citizen, Café Thirty-A
Book spa appointments: 2+ weeks ahead for Spa Pearl or Serenity Spa (stagger appointments for groups larger than 6)
Book major activities: 2-3 weeks ahead for pontoon rental and beach bonfire
Verify beach access with your host: Get exact access name + map link, confirm if public vs private/deeded, ask about wristbands/fobs/codes, parking availability/route, and backup access if main lot fills
Book beach setup service: Reserve with Vacayzen, Live Well 30A, or La Dolce Vita; confirm your specific beach access allows vendors when booking
Plan bikes for everyone: Use the Timpoochee Trail, not the 30A roadway for safe riding between communities
Arrange airport transportation (limited Uber/Lyft across 30A)

📌 For complete venue details, pricing, and booking strategies, check out our comprehensive 30A bachelorette planning guide with verified restaurants, hotels, and insider navigation tips.

Day 1: Arrival & Welcome

Budget Note: $50-150 per person depending on base location and meal choices

Morning/Afternoon: Staggered Arrivals

10:00 AM - 2:00 PM: If everyone is flying separately, make a plan for those with the closest arrival times to ride together from the airport to accommodations after landing.
- Airport:
  - Northwest Florida Beaches International (ECP) is closest at 20-45 minutes.
  - Destin-Fort Walton Beach Airport (VPS) is also a convenient option, typically about a 50-minute drive from 30A, depending on traffic.
- Luggage hold options if you arrive before check-in:
  - The Pearl: Offers early luggage storage for guests
  - Vacation rentals: Ask host about early access
  - Backup: UPS Store on Highway 98 (check current rates/availability)

2:00 PM - 4:00 PM: Check-in and settle. If staying in a rental, grocery run at Publix Ocean Park Pavilion (best for east end: Rosemary/Alys/Seacrest) or Publix WaterColor Crossings (central: Seaside/WaterColor/Grayton).
After check-in: Confirm your beach access route with your host and pick up any wristbands/fobs needed for beach entry.

Late Afternoon (Optional): Coffee Stroll

4:00 PM - 5:00 PM Take a relaxed walk to Fonville Press Market Café (Alys Beach) or Amavida Coffee (Rosemary Beach) for afternoon coffee and a first look at the area.

Evening: Welcome & Connection

5:00 PM - 6:30 PM: Welcome drinks at La Crema
- Location: 83 Main Street, Rosemary Beach
- Walking distance from most east end accommodations
- Outdoor seating, great for groups, perfect sunset timing
- Arrive 30-45 minutes before sunset for best seats and photos
- Budget: $12-16 per cocktail

If staying central, do Bud & Alley's rooftop instead (arrive by 5:30pm for the sunset bell experience); if west, Shunk Gulley.

7:30 PM - 9:30 PM: Welcome dinner at Havana Beach Bar & Grill
- Location: The Pearl Hotel, Rosemary Beach
- Request veranda or rooftop seating at sunset when booking
- Cuban-Caribbean fusion, upscale but relaxed
- Budget: $30-50 per person

If staying central, dine downstairs at Bud & Alley's after rooftop drinks.

9:30 PM - 10:00 PM: Dessert at The Sugar Shak
- Walk to 5 Main Street, Rosemary Beach (steps from dinner)
- Floor-to-ceiling candy selection, ice cream, shakes
- Perfect sweet ending to your first night
- Budget: $5-10 per person

Introvert Option: Skip welcome drinks if you need post-travel downtime. Just meet for dinner.

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Day 2: Beach, Nature & Sunset

Budget Note: $65-185 per person depending on activities and dining choices

Morning: Fuel Up

8:30 AM - 10:00 AM: Breakfast (Choose By Location)
- East End:
  - Charlie's Café (Rosemary Beach): Quick, casual, strong coffee. Budget: $10-16pp
  - Raw & Juicy (Alys): Fresh, healthy options
  - Black Bear Bread Co. (Grayton): Worth the drive for artisan pastries
- Central/West:
  - Big Bad Breakfast (Santa Rosa Beach): 15 minutes from most bases. Southern comfort, legendary biscuits. Budget: $12-18pp

Mid-Morning: Nature Experience

Option 1 (10:00 AM - 12:00 PM): Western Lake SUP/Kayak (Default - better morning light and calmer water)
- Location: Grayton Beach State Park
- Rare coastal dune lake experience
- Calm water, perfect for beginners
- Rent at park or book outfitter ahead
- Budget: $35-55pp
- Alternative: Timpoochee Trail Bike Ride - start from your base, ride to neighboring communities. Use the Timpoochee Trail (18.5 miles paved), not the 30A roadway.
  - Rentals: Peddlers 30A or Big Shark ($25-35pp/day).
Option 2 (10:30 AM - 3:00 PM): Beach Day with Professional Setup
- Any 30A beach (Rosemary, Alys, Seaside, Grayton)
- Book through Vacayzen, Live Well 30A, or La Dolce Vita (confirm your access)
- Professional setup: $150-200 total (split = $20-30pp). Includes umbrellas, chairs, cooler. Bring: SPF 50+ sunscreen, water, snacks, speaker

Afternoon: Explore & Shop

3:00 PM - 5:00 PM: Town Center Exploration (Choose By Base)
- East End: Rosemary Beach + Alys Beach architecture walk
  - Browse boutiques on Main Street
  - Photo session at Alys white buildings (10 min drive/bike)
  - Grab coffee at Amavida
- Central: Seaside town square
  - Iconic pastel buildings
  - Airstream Row
  - Central fountain photos
- West: Eden Gardens State Park
  - Golden hour prep (go at 4pm for best photos)
  - Moss-draped oaks, historic Wesley House
  - Entry $5pp

Evening: Signature 30A Sunset & Dinner

5:30 PM - 7:00 PM: Sunset Drinks
- Pescado Rooftop (East End)
  - Arrive 30-45 minutes before sunset for best seats and photos
  - 18+ after 3:30 pm; rooftop first-come, inside reservations honored
  - Budget: $12-18 per cocktail
  - If based near Seaside/WaterColor, swap to Bud & Alley's rooftop at sunset (arrive by 5:30pm for the sunset bell tradition) and dine downstairs. Budget: $12-16 per cocktail.
8:00 PM - 10:00 PM: Dinner
- The Citizen (Alys Beach) - East-End choice; 10-minute drive
  - Executive chef from Commander's Palace
  - Book 2+ weeks ahead
  - Budget: $35-60pp
  - Walkable alternative: Edward's Fine Food & Wine, Rosemary Beach
- FOOW (WaterColor) - Central resort dining
  - Request window seating
  - Gulf views, upscale
  - Budget: $40-70pp
- The Red Bar (Grayton Beach) - West end casual
  - Live music nightly
  - Bohemian local landmark
  - Cash preferred, no reservations
  - Budget: $20-35pp

Day 3: Peak Celebration

Budget Note: $150-400 per person depending on spa/activity choices

Morning

9:00 AM - 11:00 AM: Spa Morning (Optional)
- Spa Pearl (The Pearl Hotel, Rosemary Beach) or Serenity Spa (WaterColor)
- Services: manicures ($45-65), massages ($120-180), facials ($90-150)
- Book 2+ weeks ahead. Both offer bachelorette packages. For groups larger than 6, stagger appointment times across available therapists
11:00 AM - 12:00 PM: Light lunch before boat
- Raw & Juicy (Alys Beach) for smoothies and bowls, or grab sandwiches from a local café to bring on the boat

💰 Budget Option: Skip spa for leisurely breakfast at Havana Beach (Pearl guests) or FOOW (WaterColor guests), then beach walk

Afternoon: Big Adventure

12:00 PM - 5:00 PM: Pontoon Boat Rental
- Half-day captained rental for 4-5 hours: $495-895 (split = $60-110pp for 8 people)
- What's included: fuel, cooler, ice, water
- Activities: swimming, dolphin watching, sandbar visits, music
- What to bring:
  - Sunscreen sticks for easy touch-ups (reapply frequently)
  - Snacks and drinks (BYOB allowed - no glass, use cans or plastic)
  - Towels
  - Waterproof phone case
  - Motion sickness medicine (just in case)
  - Trash bag for packing out everything
  - Extra layers for boat wind
Alternative: Lower-Key Afternoon
- Pool day at your resort/rental
- Explore Topsail Hill Preserve State Park (pristine beaches, trails, tram access)
- Budget-friendly and relaxing

Evening: Relaxed Celebration Dinner

6:00 PM - 7:30 PM: Pre-Dinner (Optional)
- Wine Tasting at Cuvée 30A (Inlet Beach)
- Wine flights $18-25
- Sophisticated pre-dinner activity
- Excellent non-alcoholic options too
7:30 PM - 10:00 PM: Dinner at Café Thirty-A (Seagrove)
- Location: 3899 E County Hwy 30A, Santa Rosa Beach
- Upscale staple with efficient service for groups
- Confirm early-dining value window (usually 4:30-5:00pm) if you want the savings option
- Budget: $40-70pp
10:00 PM - 10:30 PM: Nightcap - Choose one:
- Pecan Jacks Ice Creamery (Seagrove) for house-made ice cream and pralines
- Bar Room by Black Bear (Grayton Beach) for quiet wine-and-oysters nightcap in conversation-friendly setting

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Day 4: Departure

Budget Note: $30-75 per person

Morning: Final Celebration

9:00 AM - 11:00 AM: Farewell Brunch
- East End: Great Southern Café (Seaside) or FOOW (WaterColor)
  - Budget: $16-24pp
- Central/West:Local café
  - Casual, easy
  - Budget: $12-18pp

9:00 AM - 11:00 AM: Farewell Brunch
- East End: Great Southern Café (Seaside) or FOOW (WaterColor)
- Budget: $16-24pp
- Central/West:Local café
  - Casual, easy
  - Budget: $12-18pp

Late Morning: Staggered Departures

11:00 AM - 1:00 PM: Departure Logistics That Actually Work
- Pro tip: Not everyone needs to leave at the same time. Plan 2-3 departure windows based on flight times.
For Early Departures (11:00 AM - 12:00 PM):
- Check out early, use luggage storage if needed
- Final group photos before anyone leaves
For Late Departures (1:00 PM - 3:00 PM):
- Extended activities while early departures head out
- Makes goodbyes less rushed

Afternoon:

1:00 PM - 3:00 PM: Final Activities (Choose One)
- Option 1: Final Photo Session
  - Alys Beach white buildings (10 min from Rosemary)
  - Rosemary Beach boardwalks
  - Your favorite spot from the weekend
  - Best light: before 3pm
- Option 2: Seaside Airstream Row
  - Grab lunch/snacks for the road
  - Last-minute shopping
  - People-watching at the square
- Option 3: Beach Walk
  - Simple, meaningful
  - Process the weekend together
  - Free and perfect
  - If you skipped it earlier: Eden Gardens State Park for peaceful reflection among moss-draped oaks.
- Luggage Storage for Late Departures:
  - The Pearl: Check current availability
  - UPS Store Highway 98: Check current rates/availability
  - Some vacation rentals: check policy

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Transportation Notes

Getting Around 30A:

Within your community: Most walkable
Between communities: Golf cart, bike (Timpoochee Trail), or car needed
Limited Uber/Lyft: Plan ahead, don't rely on ride-sharing
Airport transfers: Book a private shuttle ahead

Golf Cart Logistics:

Reserve ahead if accommodation doesn't include
$75-125/day, perfect for 4-6 people
Important HOA restrictions: Many HOAs restrict carts inside Rosemary/Alys; plan to walk/bike inside town centers and use carts only along 30A where allowed

Bike Strategy:

Use for morning rides between communities
Great for photos and exploration
Use the Timpoochee Trail (18.5 miles paved), not the roadway
Ride early morning or late afternoon to avoid heat

Beach Rules & Safety

Follow these rules to avoid fines and stay safe:

No glass on the beach - Use cans or plastic only
Follow flag system - Double red = water closed
Remove gear nightly - All chairs, tents, canopies must be removed each evening (enforced by beach patrol)
Use permitted vendors for bonfires - DIY bonfires require advance county permits

Flexibility Reminders

This itinerary is a framework, not a mandate.

Swap days based on weather
Choose options that fit your group's vibe
Skip activities if energy is low
Add spontaneous discoveries
Remember: connection matters more than checking boxes

The best bachelorette weekend is one where everyone leaves feeling closer than when they arrived.

Final Tips

Payment Expectations: Establish before dinner whether it's split checks or one card + Venmo settle later. Removes awkwardness.
Photo Strategy: Assign one person as designated photographer each day. Rotate so everyone gets candids.
Group Check-Ins: Quick morning huddle about energy levels and plans. Permission to opt out without guilt.
Weather Backup: Indoor options ready: spa, wine tasting, NEAT bourbon tasting, WaterColor shops, Eden Gardens
Most Important: Focus on the people, not the perfect plan. Flexibility and grace create the best memories.

Ready to make it happen? Your 30A bachelorette weekend starts here. For complete venue details, dietary accommodations, booking timelines, and more, reference the full planning guide.

Here's to your last fling before the ring - may it be everything you dreamed of and nothing you stressed about.

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