NYC Bachelorette Party: Your 4-Day Weekend Itinerary
Trip Length: 4 Days | Budget Range: $700–$3,000+ Per Person | Best For: Groups of 6–10
This plug-and-play 4-day NYC itinerary takes the stress out of bachelorette planning. We've built in realistic timing, energy management, and geographic flow so your group can actually enjoy the weekend instead of zigzagging across the city in heels. Each day balances high-energy experiences with downtime, and we've included budget estimates so you know exactly what to expect.
📌 Need venue details, safety info, and alternatives? Check our Complete NYC Bachelorette Planning Guide for full hotel listings, restaurant recommendations, activity options, neighborhood safety ratings, budget breakdowns, and insider tips.
Table of contents

Day 1: Arrival & Connection (Thursday)
Daily Budget Estimate: $80–$150 per person (meals, drinks, transportation)
Morning/Afternoon
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2:00 PM– Check into your hotel (most accommodate early check-in for groups)
- Logistics: Most people will be tired from travel. Resist the urge to pack activities in before everyone has arrived and settled. Staggered arrivals are completely normal.
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3:30 PM– Welcome coffee and sweet treat (pick what's closest to your hotel)
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Coffee & Pastry Spots By Neighborhood:
- Devoción (Flatiron/Williamsburg/DUMBO) – Plant-filled, bright reset
- Ralph's Coffee (Upper East Side/Flatiron) – Cute cups, shopping corridor
- Breads Bakery (Union Square/Bryant Park) – Babka to share
- Caffe Paradiso (Nolita) – Chic new café moment
- La Cabra (East Village/SoHo) – Scandi pastries
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Coffee & Pastry Spots By Neighborhood:
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4:30 PM– Neighborhood walk to get your bearings
- Chelsea/West Side Route: Walk the High Line (15–20 minutes), explore Chelsea Market
- SoHo/Nolita Route: Browse Prince and Spring Streets, people-watch
- Uptown Route: Stroll through Central Park's southeast corner
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Brooklyn Route: Waterfront parks in Williamsburg or DUMBO
Transportation: Uber/Lyft from airport to hotel ($50–$90 depending on airport). Walking within neighborhood for evening activities.
Evening: Low-Key Bonding
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6:00 PM– Dinner somewhere casual and conversation-friendly
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Budget Options:
- Chelsea Market (if staying West Side) – Multiple vendors, $15–$25 per person, easy group seating
- Urbanspace @ 570 Lexington (if staying Midtown East) – Food hall variety, $15–$25 per person
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Mid-Range Options:
- Dante in Greenwich Village ($25–$35 per person) – Award-winning cocktails, lively vibe
- Jack's Wife Freda in SoHo ($18–$28 per person) – Mediterranean small plates
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Budget Options:
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8:30 PM– Dessert and coffee at a neighborhood spot
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Suggestions:
- Magnolia Bakery (banana pudding)
- Dominique Ansel (cookie shot, frozen s'more)
- Levain Bakery for their famous cookies
- Local coffee shop for low-key vibes
- Hotel lobby bar if energy is low
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Suggestions:
- 10:00 PM – Optional: One drink at hotel bar, then early night

Day 2: Choose Your Track
Daily Budget Estimate: $150–$300 per person (brunch, activities, dinner, drinks)
IMPORTANT: Pick Track A (Uptown) OR Track B (Downtown) based on your hotel location. Don't mix - 32you'll waste time and money on transportation.
Morning: Culture & Brunch
- 9:00 AM – Coffee walk through Central Park (if staying Uptown) OR neighborhood stroll (if staying Downtown)
Choose Your Track Based On Hotel Location:
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Uptown Track (Upper East Side/Midtown base):
- Enter Central Park at 5th Avenue and 59th Street
- Walk to Bethesda Fountain (20 minutes)
- Brunch at Sarabeth's UES or The Smith Lincoln Square
- Visit The Met (walkable from both)
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Downtown Track (SoHo/LES/Brooklyn base):
- Coffee stroll through SoHo streets
- Brunch at Balthazar or Jack's Wife Freda
- Shopping in SoHo (walkable)
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10:30 AM– Brunch
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Budget Options:
- Chelsea Market (West Side)
- Urbanspace @ 570 Lex (Midtown) – $15–$25 per person
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Mid-Range Options:
- The Smith (multiple locations) ($25–$35)
- Sadelle's in SoHo ($25–$40)
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Splurge Options:
- Balthazar in SoHo ($35–$50)
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Budget Options:
📌 See our Planning Guide for addresses, reservation notes, and group policies.
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12:00 PM– Choose your adventure
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Option A: Metropolitan Museum of Art(best for Uptown track)
- 2–3 hours, $30 general admission for most visitors (pay-what-you-wish for NY State residents and NY/NJ/CT students with ID)
- Split into smaller groups based on interests
- Met Steps perfect for group photos
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Option B: SoHo Shopping(best for Downtown track)
- 2–3 hours, free (unless you buy)
- Reformation, Glossier, local boutiques
- Great for browsing and photos
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Option A: Metropolitan Museum of Art(best for Uptown track)
Transportation: Walking for most activities on your chosen track. Subway or rideshare if switching between Uptown and Downtown ($5–15).
Afternoon: Recharge Break
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2:30 PM– Return to hotel or find a café for downtime
- Why This Matters: This 90-minute break prevents everyone from crashing at 9 PM. Some will nap, others will shower, everyone will recharge.
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4:00 PM– Afternoon treat (optional)
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Options:
- Afternoon tea: Alice's Tea Cup (from approximately $48 per person) or Plaza Palm Court (from approximately $120 per person)
- Casual café for coffee and pastries ($10–15)
- Skip entirely and use time for extended rest
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Options:
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5:30 PM– Back to hotel for evening preparation
- Getting Ready Time: Give everyone at least 90 minutes to regroup, touch up makeup, and build excitement.
Evening: Elevated Dinner & Night Out
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7:30 PM– Special dinner (choose based on your track)
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Uptown Track → Flatiron Evening:
- Cote Korean Steakhouse in Flatiron ($65–$85)
- Followed by The Fleur Room rooftop (5–10 minute rideshare)
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Downtown Track → Stay Downtown:
- Chinese Tuxedo in Chinatown ($45–$65) – Dramatic sceney space
- Followed by Temple Bar or Daphne at PUBLIC Hotel (walkable)
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Brooklyn Track:
- Le Crocodile or K'Far in Williamsburg ($40–$60)
- Followed by Westlight rooftop (walkable or short rideshare)
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Uptown Track → Flatiron Evening:
💬 Tip: Choose a rooftop closest to your dinner to minimize travel time and maximize celebration time. See our Planning Guide for complete details and reservation strategies.
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9:45 PM– Rooftop cocktails with Manhattan views
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Sunset-Focused Options:
- Westlight at William Vale in Brooklyn ($18–$22 per cocktail) – Best for Brooklyn dinners
- Harriet's Rooftop at 1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge ($18–$24) – DUMBO location
- The Fleur Room in NoMad ($20–$26) – Best for Flatiron/Midtown dinners
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Sunset-Focused Options:
💬 Reserve sunset slots 2 weeks ahead. Smart-casual dress code enforced at all rooftops. Cocktails typically $18–$25+.
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11:30 PM -Night Out
- High-Energy Option: Somewhere Nowhere rooftop club in Chelsea (cover varies, guest list recommended via official channels)
- Lounge Option: Temple Bar in NoHo or Employees Only in West Village ($16–$22 cocktails)
- Easy Option: Hotel bar nightcap
Transportation: Rideshare to dinner ($15–$25). Rideshare to/from rooftop bar ($20–$35 total depending on location). Plan your dinner and rooftop in the same geographic area to save time and money.

Day 3: Peak Celebration
Daily Budget Estimate: $200–$450 per person (brunch, spa/activity, celebration dinner, nightlife)
Morning: Recovery & Pampering
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10:00 AM– Leisurely brunch (no rush, no pressure)
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Options:
- Sadelle's in SoHo ($25–$40) – Iconic bagel tower, classic NYC moment
- Le Crocodile in Williamsburg ($40–$60) – French-leaning upscale-casual
- Celestine at 1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge ($50–$75) – Waterfront with golden-hour potential
- Kokomo in Williamsburg ($35–$50) – Caribbean festive energy
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Options:
📌 See our Planning Guide for reservation requirements and group policies.
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12:00 PM– Spa time or relaxing activity
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Spa Options:
- QC NY Spa on Governors Island ($80–$120 per person, 2–3 hours, seasonal May–Oct) – Skyline thermal pools, requires ferry
- Pro Tip: If choosing QC NY, pack light—robe-friendly one-piece + slides. Ferry adds 25–30 minutes to travel time.
- AIRE Ancient Baths in Tribeca or UES ($100–$150+) – Candlelit thermal circuit, premium spa
- Hotel pool time if your accommodation has one
- QC NY Spa on Governors Island ($80–$120 per person, 2–3 hours, seasonal May–Oct) – Skyline thermal pools, requires ferry
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Alternative Activities:
- Continued shopping or neighborhood exploration
- Central Park relaxation and photos
- Extended brunch conversation
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Spa Options:
Transportation: Rideshare to spa if in Brooklyn or Governors Island ($20–$40). Otherwise walking distance.
Afternoon:
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4:00 PM– Choose your signature activity
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Photo-Focused Options:
- Professional photo shoot in Central Park ($300–$500 for group, 1–2 hours)
- Brooklyn Bridge walk + DUMBO photos (free, 1–2 hours)
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Creative Options:
- Paint and sip experience ($50–$75 per person)
- Cooking class at culinary school ($80–$120 per person)
- Private room karaoke near dinner (approximately $50–$90 per hour + F&B minimums; peak nights higher; K-Town basements = best value, East Village lounges = best craft-cocktail pairings)
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Waterfront Options:
- Private harbor cruise with sunset skyline loop (from approximately $900–$2,000+ for group, 60–120 minutes, BYO playlist; prices vary by boat size and season; confirm BYOB rules with operator)
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Afternoon Tea:
- The Plaza Palm Court (from approximately $120 per person; Champagne tiers $150–$305)
- Alice's Tea Cup (from approximately $48 per person)
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Photo-Focused Options:
📌 See our Planning Guide for detailed activity descriptions and booking information.
- 6:00 PM – Return to hotel get ready for the night
Evening: The Big Celebration
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7:30 PM– Celebratory dinner (choose based on location for minimal travel)
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Brooklyn Track:
- Le Crocodile in Williamsburg ($40–$60) – If you brunched/spa'd in Brooklyn
- Kokomo in Williamsburg ($35–$50) – Caribbean festive vibe
- Followed by Westlight rooftop (walkable)
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Downtown Track (SoHo/Chinatown):
- Chinese Tuxedo in Chinatown ($45–$65) – Dramatic sceney space, shareable menu
- Shuka in SoHo ($30–$45) – Modern Mediterranean
- Followed by Temple Bar or Daphne at PUBLIC Hotel (walkable)
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Uptown/Flatiron Track:
- Cote Korean Steakhouse in Flatiron ($65–$85) – Interactive, Michelin-starred
- Followed by The Fleur Room (5–10 minute rideshare)
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Brooklyn Track:
📌 See our Planning Guide for addresses, group capacities, and reservation timelines.
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9:30 PM– Bar hopping OR male revue show
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Rooftop Options:
- Westlight in Brooklyn ($18–$22) – Best for Brooklyn dinners
- The Fleur Room in NoMad ($20–$26) – Best for Flatiron dinners
- 230 Fifth in Flatiron ($18–$24) – Easy entry
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Intimate Lounge Options:
- Temple Bar in NoHo ($16–$22) – Best for Downtown dinners
- Daphne at PUBLIC Hotel ($18–$24) – LES location
- Employees Only in West Village ($18–$24)
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Rooftop Options:
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Male Revue Options:
- Exotique Men in East Village – Best for Downtown track (10–12 minute rideshare from SoHo/Chinatown)
- Hunk-O-Mania or Times Square Hunks – Best for Uptown/Flatiron track (8–12 minute rideshare)
📌 See our Planning Guide for complete male revue details, age policies, and booking information.
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11:00 PM– Dancing, revue show, or late-night venue
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High-Energy:
- Somewhere Nowhere rooftop club (cover varies, guest list or tickets via official channels, dress code enforced, arrive by 11 PM)
- Marquee in Chelsea ($20–$40 cover, strict dress code)
- Male revue show (if not done at 9:30 PM slot)
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Chill Energy:
- Radegast Hall in Brooklyn (cash only) – Beer garden vibes
- Hotel bar for low-key celebration
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High-Energy:
Transportation: Rideshare throughout evening ($40–$70 total per person depending on locations and timing). Keep dinner, cocktails, and late-night activities in the same geographic area to minimize costs and maximize celebration time.
Day 4: Meaningful Departure
Daily Budget Estimate: $60–$120 per person (brunch, activities, luggage storage, transportation)
Morning: Final Connections
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9:00 AM– Late checkout arranged
- Pro Tip: Call hotel 2–3 days before arrival to request late checkout (12–2 PM). Most hotels accommodate groups with advance notice.
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10:00 AM – Farewell brunch near transportation hub
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Manhattan Options Near Transit:
- Sadelle's in SoHo ($25–$40) – Walkable to Canal Street stations, iconic bagel tower
- Jack's Wife Freda in SoHo ($18–$28) – Near multiple subway lines, Mediterranean favorites
- Casual café near Penn Station or Grand Central ($15–$25)
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Brooklyn Option:
- Time Out Market DUMBO ($20–$35) – Multiple vendors, waterfront views, perfect if you overnighted in Brooklyn
- Maison Premiere in Williamsburg ($28–$38) – Oysters and champagne, late brunch service works for later flights
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Manhattan Options Near Transit:
Why Near Transit: Makes departure logistics easier. You're not backtracking across the city after brunch.
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12:00 PM – Final photo opportunity
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Weather Permitting:
- Brooklyn Bridge walk for skyline shots
- Central Park if staying uptown
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Rain/Bad Weather:
- Grand Central Terminal main concourse
- Hotel lobby if architecture is beautiful
- Skip photos entirely and have a long, chatty brunch
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Weather Permitting:
Afternoon: Departure Logistics
- 1:30 PM– Store luggage
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Options:
- Bounce app ($4.90/bag/day) – Multiple Manhattan locations
- Penn Station through Amtrak ($5.50/bag)
- Grand Central Terminal ($5–$10/bag)
- Hotel luggage hold (sometimes free for checkout day)
- 2:00 PM– Last-minute activities based on flight times
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Early Flights (before 6 PM):
- Head directly to airport after luggage storage
- Budget 90 minutes to JFK/Newark, 60 minutes to LaGuardia
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Evening Flights (after 6 PM):
- Quick shopping in Union Square or SoHo
- Coffee and reflection time at favorite café
- Additional photos in preferred neighborhood
- Walk through area you didn't explore yet
- 3:30 PM – Retrieve luggage and prepare for departure
- 4:30 PM– Head to airport/train station
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Transportation Times:
- JFK: 90 minutes during weekend traffic
- LaGuardia: 60 minutes
- Newark: 90 minutes
- Penn Station/Grand Central: Already there
Transportation: Rideshare to airport ($50–$90 depending on destination).


Customizing The Plans For Your Group
For High-Energy Groups
- Add extra nightlife on Day 2
- Extend Day 3 festivities into early morning
- Consider brunch-to-club progression on Saturday
- Skip afternoon downtime if everyone has stamina
For Chill Groups
- Replace club nights with rooftop sunset drinks
- Add more spa time and relaxation
- Extend afternoon tea experiences
- Choose quieter cocktail bars over dancing venues
For Culture Lovers
- Add second museum day
- Include gallery walks in Chelsea
- Book guided food tours
- Extend time at cultural attractions
For Foodies
- Make every meal an experience
- Add cooking class or food tour
- Include Chelsea Market and food hall exploration
- Choose restaurants based on culinary experience
Quick Reference
Transportation Times
- Manhattan to Brooklyn neighborhoods: 25–35 minutes
- Between Manhattan neighborhoods: 15–25 minutes
- JFK to Midtown: 60–90 minutes
- LaGuardia to Midtown: 45–60 minutes
- Newark to Midtown: 60–90 minutes
Reservation Reminders
- Dinner for 8+ people: Book 3–4 weeks ahead
- Brunch for 6+ people: Book 1–2 weeks ahead
- Spa services: Book 2–3 weeks ahead
- Activities and tours: Book 2–3 weeks ahead
- Hotels: Book 6–8 weeks ahead for best rates
Emergency Contacts
- NYC Emergency: 911
- Non-Emergency: 311
- NYC Tourist Hotline: 212-484-1200
Packing Essentials
- Comfortable walking shoes (you'll walk 5–10 miles/day)
- Weather-appropriate layers
- One dressy outfit for celebration dinner
- Phone charger and portable battery
- Compact umbrella (spring/summer)
- Hotel address cards for everyone
Final Tips For A Smooth Weekend
Communication Is Key Share this itinerary with your group 2 weeks before the trip. Make sure everyone knows the daily schedule, budget expectations, and what's optional versus required.
Build In Flexibility: This itinerary is a guide, not a rulebook. If something isn't working or the group wants to do something different, adjust on the fly. The best memories often come from spontaneous moments.
Energy Management Matters: The afternoon breaks on Days 2 and 3 are crucial. Don't skip them to pack in more activities. Rested groups have more fun than exhausted ones.
Keep The Focus On Celebration: Logistics matter, but connection matters more. If a reservation falls through or weather changes plans, roll with it. The goal is celebrating your bride and creating memories together.
Document The Weekend: Designate someone to take photos at each activity. Create a shared album so everyone can access photos immediately. Consider hiring a professional photographer for one special session.

Your 4-day NYC bachelorette weekend is set. You have the structure you need with the flexibility to make it your own. Now go make memories that last long after the wedding.
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