Cabo Bachelorette Party Itinerary: Your Ultimate 4-Day Guide to the Perfect Girls' Weekend
Trip Length: 4 Days, 3 Nights | Group Vibe: Balanced Fun & Relaxation | Budget Range: $1,500-$2,500 per person
Planning a Cabo bachelorette party? We've got you covered with an itinerary that actually works for real friend groups - no stress, no outfit drama, just good vibes and even better memories. Whether you're the MOH trying to nail the perfect weekend or a bride wanting to give your girls the best time, this guide has everything you need.
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What Makes This Guide Different
- Real talk about budgets - We're giving you actual costs, not just "contact for pricing" nonsense. After researching dozens of Cabo bachelorette experiences, we know exactly what things cost and where you can save without sacrificing the fun.
Outfit coordination made easy - Pieces you'll actually want to wear again, styled for comfort AND Instagram. No more closet regrets or one-time-wear guilt.
Solutions for mixed groups - We get it. Not everyone wants to party until 3 am, and not everyone wants to meditate at sunrise. This guide works for groups with different energy levels and interests.
Departure day planning - This is where most guides fail you. We're solving the "what do we do with our bags and five hours until different flight times" problem that literally every group faces.
Before You Go: Essential Cabo Bachelorette Planning
The Group Chat Reality Check
Start your planning with an honest budget conversation. Based on our research, most groups spend between $1,500-$2,500 per person for four days in Cabo, not including flights. Here's the breakdown that actually works:
Budget Tier Breakdown (Per Person, 4 Days)
- Budget-Conscious ($1,500-$1,800): Shared villa accommodations, mix of casual and one splurge meal, beach club day pass, group boat tour
Mid-Range ($1,800-$2,200): Nice villa or boutique hotel, balance of experiences, private beach club cabana, premium boat charter
Luxury ($2,200-$2,500+): Oceanfront villa with chef, exclusive experiences, VIP treatment, private transportation
💬 Pro tip: Set the budget early and stick to it. Cabo costs can spiral quickly, and nobody wants to stress about money when you're supposed to be celebrating.
For a deep-dive on the best hotels, restaurants, and activities for your Cabo bachelorette, check out our Cabo Bachelorette Planning Guide here.
Day-by-Day Itinerary: Making Every Moment Count
Day 1 - Thursday: Arrival & Connection
Morning/Afternoon: Touchdown in Paradise
Most flights arrive in Cabo between 10 am-2 pm, making Thursday the perfect arrival day. Book airport transfers in advance - we recommend Cabo Airport Shuttle for reliable service at $15-20 per person.
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Essential First Stop: Grocery Run
Hit Walmart or City Club for basics: bottled water (essential), snacks, alcohol for the villa, and any specialty items. Budget $50-75 per person for the weekend.
👚 Day 1 Outfit: Travel Comfort Meets Cabo Vibes
Featured Piece: Union Threads World Tour Hoodie in Sand
- Why It's Perfect: Comfortable for travel, effortlessly chic for arrival photos, and easily transitions from plane to poolside. The neutral tones photograph beautifully against Cabo's scenery.
- Styling Tip: Pair with white sneakers for travel, swap to sandals for evening. Add gold jewelry for an elevated look without trying too hard.
Evening: First Night Bonding (7-10 pm)
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Dinner Option 1: The Office (Budget-Friendly)
Iconic beachfront restaurant with tables literally in the sand. Expect to pay $25-35 per person for dinner. The vibe is casual, fun, and perfect for getting everyone excited about the weekend.
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Dinner Option 2: Rooftop 360 (Mid-Range)
Best views in Cabo, hands down. Located inside Corazon Cabo Resort, this rooftop spot offers panoramic ocean views and craft cocktails. $45-60 per person for dinner and drinks.
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Dinner Option 3: Sunset Monalisa (Luxury)
Cliffside dining with dramatic sunset views. This is where you go for the "once in a lifetime" dinner experience. $80-120 per person, but worth every penny for the memories.
💬 Pro Tip for Mixed Groups: Start with a low-key first night. Some people need time to adjust. Save the big party night for Day 3.
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After Dinner: Villa Time & Early Rest
Head back to the villa for pool time, games, and catching up. This is when the real bonding happens - not in crowded clubs but in your own private space with margaritas and good music
Day 2 - Friday: The Full Cabo Experience
Morning: Fuel Up for Adventure (8-10 am)
- Breakfast at Villa: Stock up on fresh fruit, pastries, and coffee. Prickly Pear Cabo offers excellent grocery delivery services.
- Coffee Run: Baja Beans or Lands End Coffee Roaster for the caffeine addicts in your group.
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Main Event: Private Boat Charter (10 am-3 pm)
This is the crown jewel of any Cabo bachelorette party. Based on our research, expect to pay $125-175 per person for a 4-5 hour private charter with open bar and lunch.
Recommended Companies:
Cabo Discount Tours: Reliable, fun crew, excellent value at around $111-$160 per person for 4-5 hours (check current deals as prices can fluctuate).
Seashine Charters: Newer boats, premium service, around $175 per person.
Papillon Yachts: Budget-friendly option at $125 per person, still great experience.
What's Included: Transportation to/from marina, open bar, lunch (usually tacos and quesadillas), snorkeling gear, and stops at famous landmarks including El Arco. (Note: A $2 USD dock fee per person is typically extra).
👚 Day 2 Outfit: Boat Day Perfection
Featured Piece: Union Threads Matching Hats
- Why It's Perfect: The matching hats photograph beautifully for group shots, and are perfect for transitions from swimming to dining. Plus, they'll protect you from the Cabo sun.
- Styling Tip: Bring sunscreen, sunglasses, and waterproof phone case. The boat moves fast, and you'll want to protect your skin and capture memories.
Late Afternoon: Beach Club Recovery (3-7 pm)
After the boat, you'll want somewhere to recover and continue the party at a more relaxed pace.
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Option 1: Mango Deck
The classic choice. Day pass costs vary, but expect to pay a minimum spend, often around $40-60 per person with food and drink minimums. Perfect for the group that wants to keep the energy going.
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Option 2: SUR Beach House
More sophisticated vibe, better food, similar pricing. Great for groups who want to elevate the experience without breaking the bank.
Evening: Group Dinner & Nightlife (7 pm-late)
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Dinner: Los Tres Gallos (Highly Recommended)
Authentic Mexican cuisine in the art district. Family-owned restaurant with incredible mango margaritas and reasonable prices ($30-45 per person). The atmosphere is lively but not overwhelming.
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Nightlife Option 1: Mandala (Upscale)
Elegant nightclub with VIP options. Bottle service can range from $328 USD (for 4 people with 1 bottle) to $1310 USD (for 16 people with 4 bottles), but the experience is worth it for a special celebration. Great for groups who want to feel glamorous.
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Nightlife Option 2: El Squid Roe (Classic Cabo)
The legendary multi-level nightclub. It's touristy, it's wild, and it's exactly what you'd expect from Cabo nightlife. They typically have a minimum consumption fee upon arrival that includes two house drinks rather than a cover charge.
Day 3 - Saturday: Peak Celebration Mode
Morning: Recovery & Recharge (9 am-12 pm)
After Day 2's activities, some group members will need recovery time. Plan accordingly.
- For the Early Risers: Optional Cabo Dog Hike at 8 am (around $25 per person, based on typical local tour prices). This unique experience involves hiking with rescue dogs to viewpoints overlooking the arch.
- For Everyone Else: Villa pool time, coffee delivery, and a relaxed morning. Some groups hire massage therapists to come to the villa (expect $80-120 per person for an hour).
Afternoon: Premium Experience (12-5 pm)
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Option 1: Flora Farms (Cultural Experience)
45-minute drive to San Jose del Cabo, but worth it for the farm-to-table experience. Expect around $60-80 per person for lunch and the full experience. Great for groups who want something Instagram-worthy and unique.
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Option 2: Private Beach Club Cabana
Book a private cabana at Taboo, Corazon, or ME Cabo. Minimum spends range significantly. For example, Corazon's pool or beach cabanas can be around $90-$250 to rent, with a beach club pass costing 1000 Mexican Pesos (around $55 USD) that includes 800 Pesos for F&B. Taboo Beach Club (at ME Cabo) cabanas start at around $2,000 MXN ($110 USD) on weekdays to $35,000 MXN ($1,900 USD) on weekends, which is 100% credited toward food and beverage consumption. You get privacy, service, and a prime location.
Evening: Grand Finale Dinner (7-10 pm)
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Splurge Option: Nobu Los Cabos
The ultimate luxury dining experience. Expect $200-300+ per person for a full meal with drinks (individual dishes range from $20-$70+ USD). Reserve well in advance.
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Mid-Range Option: Bagatelle
French Mediterranean cuisine with a party atmosphere. Great for groups who want elevated dining with energy. Expect $80-120 per person (main courses can be $50-$100+ USD).
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Fun Option: Rosa Negra
Upscale Mexican with live entertainment and a vibrant atmosphere. Expect $100-150 per person, including drinks and entertainment.
Late Night: Final Celebration
This is your last big night, so make it count. Whether that's bottle service at a rooftop bar or a private villa party with a DJ, spend the money on what will create the best memories for your specific group.
Day 4 - Sunday: Departure Day Done Right
Morning: Farewell Brunch (9-11 am)
Villa Checkout Strategy: Pack everything the night before. Designate one person to handle checkout while others organize luggage.
- Brunch at Casa Dorada: Even if you're not staying there, their brunch is excellent and they're accommodating to groups. $25-40 per person.
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Alternative: Fiore Bakery & Coffee
Casual spot with excellent coffee and pastries. Perfect for groups who want something low-key before travel.
Luggage Solution: Multiple Options
Option 1: Hotel Luggage Storage
While some hotels might offer luggage storage for non-guests, it's not guaranteed. Stasher is a reliable option for luggage storage in Cabo, starting at $4.95 per bag per day.
Option 2: Villa Extension
Some villa management companies offer late checkout for $50-100 per group. Worth it for the convenience.
Option 3: Stasher Storage
Luggage storage service available in Cabo starting at $4.95 per bag. Book through their app or website.
Final Activities: Making the Most of Your Last Hours
For Early Flights (before 3 pm):
Quick shopping at Luxury Avenue or local markets
Final photos at the marina
Coffee and pastries to-go
For Afternoon Flights (3-6 pm):
Relaxed lunch at The Cape rooftop
Final beach walk or pool time
Group debrief and photo session
For Evening Flights (6 pm+):
Extended lunch at a restaurant with views
Spa services or final beach time
Sunset view from a rooftop bar
👚 Day 4 Outfit: Travel Home in Style
Featured Piece: Union Threads Varsity Sweatshirt
- Why It's Perfect: Comfortable for travel but still put-together for final photos. These pieces work for the airport, future errands, and remind you of the amazing weekend every time you wear them.
- Styling Tip: Choose pieces that pack well and won't wrinkle. You'll want to look good in departure photos but feel comfortable for the journey home.
Departure Logistics: Stress-Free Airport Process
- Airport Transportation: Book return transfers when you book arrival. Cabo Airport Shuttle offers group discounts and will coordinate multiple departure times.
- Timing: Plan to arrive at the airport 2.5-3 hours before international flights. Traffic can be unpredictable, and Los Cabos Airport (SJD) can get crowded, though security wait times are typically short.
- Final Group Photo: Take it at the airport departure gate. Everyone's there, everyone's happy, and it's the perfect end to an amazing weekend.
Complete Budget Breakdown: What It Really Costs
Category |
Budget Option |
Mid-Range Option |
Luxury Option |
Accommodation (3 nights) |
$450-$750 |
$750-$1,200 |
$1,200-$2,000 |
Food & Drinks |
$300-$400 |
$400-$600 |
$600-$1,000 |
Activities |
$200-$300 |
$300-$500 |
$500-$800 |
Transportation |
$100-$150 |
$150-$200 |
$200-$300 |
Miscellaneous |
$100-$150 |
$150-$250 |
$250-$400 |
Total Per Person |
$1,150-$1,750 |
$1,750-$2,750 |
$2,750-$4,500 |
Note: These totals do not include flights, which typically range from $300-$600 per person depending on departure city and time of year.
Money-Saving Tips That Actually Work
- Book Early: Villa prices increase significantly within 60 days of travel.
Group Discounts: Many boat tours and activities offer discounts for groups of 8+.
Happy Hours: Most restaurants offer 2-for-1 drinks from 5-7 pm.
Grocery Shop: Buy alcohol and snacks in bulk rather than paying resort prices.
Mix High and Low: Splurge on one amazing dinner, eat casual for others.
15 Non-Drinking Cabo Experiences
Not everyone drinks, and that's perfectly fine. Cabo offers incredible experiences that don't center around alcohol:
Adventure Activities
- ATV desert tours ($50-$150 per person, varying by duration and inclusions)
Snorkeling at Chileno Bay (free with equipment rental, or part of boat tours)
Sunrise hike to Mount Solmar (prices vary, typically around $25 per person for a guided tour
Cultural Experiences
- San Jose del Cabo Art Walk (Thursday evenings, free)
Glass-blowing workshop (around $60 per person)
Cooking class with local chef (from $70-$200 per person, depending on exclusivity and duration)
Wellness & Relaxation
- Beach yoga sessions (around $30 per person)
Spa treatments at resort day spas ($100-$200+ per person for massages/facials)
Meditation and breathwork sessions (around $45 per person)
Nature & Sightseeing
- Whale watching tours (seasonal, December to April, around $65 per person)
Desert botanical tours (around $55 per person)
Sunset sailing without alcohol focus (around $75 per person)
Food & Culture
- Mexican cooking classes (from $70-$200 per person)
Coffee plantation tours (less common directly in Cabo, but some tours may offer; pricing varies)
Local market tours with tastings (around $35 per person)
FAQ: Everything You Need to Know
What's the best time of year for a Cabo bachelorette party?
October through May offers the best weather with minimal rainfall. Peak season (December-March) means higher prices but guaranteed sunshine. Summer months (June-September) are affordable but can be hot and humid.
How far in advance should we book?
Book accommodations 2-3 months ahead for the best selection and prices. Activities can be booked 2-4 weeks in advance, but popular boat tours fill up quickly during peak season.
What about safety?
Cabo San Lucas is generally safe for tourists, especially in the main tourist areas. Most crime is low-level and isolated from tourists. Stay in groups, don't walk alone at night, and stick to well-lit areas. Pedregal is particularly safe due to its gated community structure.
Do we need to speak Spanish?
Not necessarily, but basic Spanish phrases are helpful and appreciated. Most tourist areas have English-speaking staff, but learning "gracias," "por favor," and "¿cuánto cuesta?" will enhance your experience.
What about tipping?
Tipping is expected and appreciated. Standard rates: restaurants 15-20%, bartenders $1-2 per drink, tour guides 10-20% of the total cost ($10-15 per person for half-day, $10-20 for full-day), housekeeping $5-10 per day.
Can we drink the water?
Stick to bottled water for drinking. Most villas and hotels provide filtered water, but when in doubt, buy bottled. This includes avoiding ice in drinks outside of reputable establishments.
Final Thoughts: Making It All Come Together
Planning a Cabo bachelorette party doesn't have to be overwhelming. The key is being realistic about budgets, considering everyone's preferences, and building in flexibility for the unexpected moments that become the best memories.
Cabo San Lucas offers the perfect backdrop for celebration: beautiful weather, stunning scenery, incredible food, and a laid-back atmosphere that encourages you to relax and have fun. With proper planning and realistic expectations, your 4-day Cabo bachelorette party will be everything you hoped for and more.
💬 Final Pro Tip: Create a shared album where everyone can upload photos throughout the weekend. Some of the best shots come from candid moments captured on different phones, and you'll want to preserve all the memories from every angle.
Here's to your amazing Cabo bachelorette party - may it be filled with sunshine, laughter, and the kind of memories that make you smile years later. Cheers to the bride, cheers to friendship, and cheers to four unforgettable days in paradise!
free resources to make planning even easier
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Our Complete Cabo Bachelorette Planning Guide: Get the full breakdown on the best (and safest) hotels, restaurants, activities, and more.
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